
Courtesy Dan Bibb
"A Short Life of Trouble: Forty Years in the New York Art World" by Marcia Tucker. University of California Press, $27.50

Courtesy Dean McNeil
Marcia Tucker, dressed as her alter ego, Miss Mannerist. She began performing the character—who was known for the humorous career advice she gave ne’er-do-well artists—in 1997 under the name Mabel McNeil.
My wife has a motto that she’s too nice to put into any but rare
practice: “Kick ’em in the ass and they’ll take you to dinner.”
Marcia Tucker, the pioneering curator and museum director
whose memoir comes out this month, may not have posted the
motto, but in her short life she habitually spoke truth to power.
Early on, she scored a secretary’s job with William
Lieberman, then MoMA’s curator of prints and drawings. When
he upbraided her for not keeping his pencils sharp enough, Tucker
told him he was the one who wasn’t doing things right. “You stick
them up your ass,” she said, “and turn hard, that’s what does it.”
Although that little shot of vitriol got her fired, another display
of brashness would lead to her big breakthrough, in 1969, when
she became the Whitney’s first woman curator. In an interview
with board chairman David Solinger, Tucker said:
“Let me tell you why you don’t want to hire a woman. One,
I won’t be able to do budgets, because, as you know, women can’t
even balance their own checkbooks. Two, once a month I’ll go
crazy and no one will be able to reason with me, much less talk to
me. Third, and most important, no one will want to take orders
from a woman, so I’ll be completely ineffectual
no matter how smart I am. And of course I’ll get
pregnant within the year, so your investment in
me will have been completely wasted.”
Solinger was charmed; Tucker got the job.
Later, having been treated abysmally in France
by Joan Mitchell, whose Whitney retrospective she was
organizing, Tucker said, as she and the painter were about
to start lunch: “You listen to me. I’ve had enough. I can’t work
this way, and I won’t. If you want the show to happen, then you’re
going to start behaving, stop insulting me, and get to work. If not,
then I’m finished here.”
Of course, neither Lieberman nor Solinger nor Mitchell is
alive to give his or her account. Maybe Tucker wasn’t the High
Noon marshal she makes herself out to be in A Short Life of
Trouble: Forty Years in the New York Art World. But I’ll give her
the benefit of the doubt, since she did crack a few eggs in order to
make omelettes during her remarkable career.
At the Whitney, she organized groundbreaking exhibitions
of Robert Morris and Bruce Nauman and turned the
museum’s biennial (then an annual) into the always controversial
box-office smash it remains to this day. She may very well be the
first American model/exemplar of the speculative —as opposed
to authoritative—curator, whose exhibitions are conceived to
raise questions rather than find answers. Fired by the Whitney
in the wake of the 1975 Richard Tuttle show that baffled even
her most fervent supporters, Tucker promptly started her own
museum, again a predominantly inquiring enterprise:
the New Museum of Contemporary Art in
downtown Manhattan, now housed in a spiffy
new building on the Bowery, which she ran for
22 years. Tucker died of lymphoma in 2006.
She was only 66 years old.
Tucker, née Silverman, was the daughter
of a Brooklyn lawyer who, operating against
“a widely held assumption—at least among the
Jews—that there were no Jewish criminals,”
never managed to make the big bucks. Her mother, Dora, “was
a mediocre cook for whom supper was a package of frozen blintzes,
the insides still chilled to a crunch, or a gray flank steak
that spent its final hours bleeding wearily into our sink.” Tucker
rebelled against her mother’s neuroses—which were straight out
of a Woody Allen movie—by slipping into Manhattan to smoke,
drink and go to Harlem clubs. At a precocious 17, she wrote in her
journal, “I am now a cynical young adult (I use the term loosely)
who has come into direct contact with poetry, poets, pseudointellectuals,
sex, James Joyce, jazz and older men.”
But like Scarlett O’Hara, Marcia Tucker was not a conventionally
beautiful woman. In her memoir, she’s certainly not
afraid to say so, unabashedly confessing that she “came into” her
“classic, middle-aged Jewish-lady looks early on.” She writes: “My
body, by the time I was 12, pot-bellied with tiny shoulders, skinny
arms and spindly, knock-kneed legs, looked like the results of
an alien abduction. ... I came to add the thick glasses, constantly
slipping down my big nose, to a face that already sported a mouth
full of crooked teeth, wires and rubber bands.” Tucker thought
herself homely enough to form an Ugly Club at school, complete
with caricature-bearing membership cards.